Many women hold a belief that they are victims in different areas of their lives. They feel they don’t have control and have to live with situations that are not healthy to them. For example, an adult relationship that is negative towards them or always being on call with children and husbands.
If there is an area of your life that you chronically complain about…you are playing the victim. It is a choice and believe it or not, there are goodies to playing a victim. It’s never all one person’s fault.